I should always have certainty and control in life (intolerance of doubt). I need to be in charge of all my ideas and feelings all the time. I must do something to regain that control if I lose control of my thoughts. Thinking the idea means its essential, and it’s also essential because i believe about this. It really is irregular to own intrusive thoughts, and if i actually do ask them to it indicates I’m crazy, strange, etc. Having an intrusive idea and doing just exactly what it shows would be the morally that is same. Considering doing damage, rather than preventing it, is simply as bad as committing harm (also called Thought-Action Fusion). Having thoughts that are intrusive i will be prone to work to them. We cannot make the risk that my thoughts should come real.
The result associated with questioning behavior on relatives and buddies are instead negative drawing plenty of annoyed responses or ridicule following the time that is thousandth. One son i understand questioned their girlfriend so frequently that she ultimately split up with him and also this put into their worries since he now wondered if she did therefore because he wasn’t a “real man.”